In this PICTURE PERFECT world of social media we wake up to showcased unrealistic happiness and beautiful dreams. Do not for a minute be fooled, for not all of it is true and the whole story. Let not what you see, belittle and leave you disappointed, angry or resentful, for it’s not your life or the life of your choice.
“Keeping up with the Joneses” is the new dream-killer; you are better off staying clear of this anxiety and chaos that it brings about by simply following “AMOR FATI” – an ancient mantra that still holds the key to blissful choices in life…

Simply by embracing…
1. Your journey to be your own to take, tailor-made by the way you experience the good and the bad from situations in your control and those which are not.

2. You win every time you accept the events that play out with gratitude and hope, as resenting or fighting them is not the way forward.

3. Willingness to experience your fears by finding acceptance and grit, only to discover before long they weren’t as bad as they seemed.

4. Accepting that everything is born through change and believing in the possibility of change leading to new avenues and opportunities.

5. Accepting that happiness as with sadness and gains as with loss have NO PERMANANCE.

6. Believing and living such that no external factors will ever be the source of joy or pain BUT just a creation of your perceptions and choices, reflected in your Actions and Reactions to them.

Permanence will never be an option, but your willingness to adapt and accept will always bring harmony to your life.

Ajith Anirudhan
Associated Certified Coach™ – ICF
Life Empowerment Coach – CCA
{ Amor fati is a Latin phrase that may be translated as “love of fate” or “love of one’s fate”. It is used to describe an attitude in which one sees everything that happens in one’s life, including suffering and loss, as good or, at the very least, necessary.}